Tuesday, March 31, 2009

SETTING MISTAKES RIGHT--WIKI STYLE

Amid much fanfare,our annual techfest APOGEE is over.As a part of a series of guest lectures,Wiki founder Jimmy Wales was here with his fiancee Andrea Weckerlea. A candid and jocular personality uncharacteristic of someone in Forbes Top 25 List,Jimmy spoke at length about his Wiki concepts.

Okkk......stay tuned.I am not going to make your lives hell by droning on his speech.I gonna speak only an incident which Jimmy elucidated.In its December 2005 issue,British journal 'Nature' brought out statistics that on an average, Britannica Encyclopaedia has 3 errors per article whereas Wikipedia has 4 errors per article.Britannica published a 50 page denunciation to repudiate the report.But Jimmy's response was different.He requested editors of 'Nature' to send a copy of the mistakes so that the errors that have crept in might be set right.

Well I am no connoisseur to provide insights into whether Wiki or Britannica is better.But the two different approaches brings out an inherent aspect of life.How do we react when people point out our flaws???

Like Britannica,many of us would probably give a blind eye to our mistakes and instead lambast the person.Why?Because our ego hurts.We feel the the other person is snarky or exhibiting an air of superiority.We wont let our self-esteem to be lowered,shall we?.Well this is perfectly normal.To be frank, even I feel hurt when somebody points out my blunders.There have been few incidents where I  resorted to verbal duel to defend my self-esteem. 

But Jimmy's response helped me to see things in a better light.A critique may be strongly worded but instead of indulging in altercations that bring no good to either side,we should take things in a lighter vein.We should not grumpily hurt the other person also.Infact if a person has pointed out our faults, we should appreciate it.Only people who genuinely care for us will make us notice our flaws.So transcend the limitations of the straitjacket that your ego engulfs you into. To err is human. Don't be vindictive,acknowledge your flaws humbly and do everything you can to set it right.Constructive criticism from others will only help us to get better.So the next time somebody points out my mistake I won't take it personally ;instead I will appreciate it and proactively fix my errors in a Wiki style.



Wednesday, March 25, 2009

A NEW ORDER OF LIVING

Erudites say in the fleeting fast-paced modern lives, a purpose of living is a must to keep you rejunivated. What is this purpose???   
Well let me be clear.......I am no philosopher or of a reflective bent.Still Sagnik's motivational(??) quests led me to ponder over this.


In school(Moral Science) we were taught that we are merely actors playing our part on earth and blah blah. I must say its all bullshit. Life is an illusion but we are not puppets. We get  scores of opportunities to shape up our own lives."Life is what you make of it." Destiny is just a nonexistant terminology for me. Maybe Lady Luck plays her part but it all boils down to how we seize control of the boundless potentials of each and every moment.


One of my friend often whines ,"I suck in everything". Why this negative vibe??Its because we get disheartened by little failures : we let our focus to be squandered by trivial daily distractions.Lets free ourselves of this ephemeral happenings. Who doesn't get knocked down in life once in a while??? Surely every mortal. But the secret lies in learning from our failures and living life on our terms to achieve the subtle goals shrouded in the routines of our mundane existence.


The question remains whats our purpose in life and I have been beating about the bush.Well the answer is don't just give a damn  to this nonsensical and abstract purpose of life.(Leave it to the sages to decode it.) For us the bottomline is that Every day offers once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to explore and enjoy our life.Grab these chances and our purpose will unfold itself automatically.Believe that each day is special and make sure it is.We will be unknowingly directed to our 'purpose in life'.